Uncovered Webs of Lies

 It doesn't take much to lie. 

It doesn't take much to pretend to be a "victim" and not disclose one's actions, one's premeditated actions and intentions.  As long as there are sycophants to clap, as long as one shrieks loud enough.  Truth cannot be known. 

Those are common traits of female narcissists - females who do everything to get their way, whether by deceit or lies, it does not matter to them. These are women such as Beatriz Grimaldi who prey and groom men to leave their families and then, after boasting about their "success", still demand silence from those who know the truth. Silence from those who have born the brunt of their devious and sociopathic behaviour. 

Truth troubles liars. 

Especially liars who get caught. 

Especially liars who know that their actions and lies are known. 

So all truth must be shut down, silenced, thus enabling liars to continue weaving their web of lies. Webs and webs of lies and deceit. 

Not all webs of lies are buried in silence 

Why should webs of lies be buried in silence? 

Silence only benefits abusers, homewreckers and narcissists who cause harm to others. 

Intentionally. Knowingly. Ruthlessly. 

The harm, the deceit, the lies - all deception, , usurping another woman's life, her home, her family, leaving women homeless - Beatriz Grimaldi knows well. 

The female predator,  Beatriz Grinaldi knows very well that she is a predator and as many female narcissists, will not tolerate that the truth is uncovered. 

Twisted Truths, Malevolent Morals

 There are fewer twisted truths than those of a home-wrecker. Just ask Beatriz Grimaldi

who uses Bologna as a base to hunt, prey, target and groom older men to leave their families. 

Elevating herself to be some kind of worshipped "artist", this is a woman who is unknown except as a ruthless  home-wrecker and liar. 

Beatriz Grimaldi considers herself above everyone and everything - why? Simply because she can fool everyone with twisted truths, also known as lies. 

Having written a couple of short stories about women who lose everything in life, it was her intention to put that into practice, i.e. making a woman lose everything in life. That cold malevolence is what you find behind the act of being an "artist". Usurping another woman's home and life, flaunting her actions and then crying out WOLF! WOLF! in sheep's clothing. 

A female narcissist like no other, this woman sets out to destroy lives, then plays victim of her own actions. There is no limit to her lies. As long as she can manipulate the public, while hiding the truth of what she does, that is enough for her. No ethics, no morals necessary. 

Female narcissists tend to want what others have and spare no thought for the damages they may cause. In the case of Beatriz Grimaldi, grooming a married man to leave his family, dishing out "advice" about his private life (where she never was) is all good practice. However, she was caught lying - lying about wanting "discretion" when flaunting her success of driving the man away from his family. Twisted truths. The truth of images and the lies of a narcissist. 

Yet this woman still considers herself above everyone and all ethics. Strident and overemphasising her "importance", she stops at nothing until cold blood is imprinted on her hands. Because she knows the truth beneath the lies. She knows what she did that summer. She knows. 

There may be few perfect marriages, few marriages that never have rough patches. 

That does not justify the actions of a home-wrecker who operates internationally. Intentionally and knowing exactly what she is doing. 

Twisted truths. Home-wreckers such as Beatriz Grimaldi will scream and squirm, twisting truths to their advantage, pretending to be victims when in fact they are responsible for destroying lives. 

Female narcissists are never accountable. 

Female narcissists thrive by twisted truths and the lies they spin. 

In Cold Blood

 

The woman known as Beatriz Grimaldi - a woman from Brazil who uses Bologna as a base to hunt, prey, target and groom older men to leave their families. 

This Beatriz Grimaldi targets her prey well; they are all older men, professionals, unlike herself. 

This woman claims to be an "artist" yet no one has heard of her. This woman claims to be a "social event planner" yet has no qualifications for such a position - other than manipulating and selling herself to those who can give her such a job. 

This woman quickly flew to Paris to meet the man she had been grooming for months. Unemployed but still went running to Paris and then begged to be taken to London. 

As Covid spread around the world, Beatriz Grimaldi was not affected; Harri Mutka gladly paid her trips to Venice, around Italy, around Europe and  to Sri Lanka and Mauritius. All wonderfully flaunted by Beatriz Grimaldi but paid for by Harri Mutka. Lot of "love" must be sprinkled on Social Media for all the paid trips. 

This is a woman who acts in cold blood. Beatriz Grimaldi grooms older men for months on social media. Once the men leave their families, she rushes to meet them, persuades them to kick their wives out of the family home (regardless whether the wife owns 50% or not), influences men to threaten and further abuse their families. 

In Cold Blood. 

This is a woman with a history of abusing women, despite her claiming to "care" about homeless women. This is a woman who does not need to work her way up in the world - so much more comfortable to lie on your back, pretend being some kind of "artist" and have men from other women pay for you. 

In Cold Ruthless Blood. 

She flaunts what she does and then, when it is public, will cry out for police and lawyers while hiding public evidence. 

Female narcissists are manipulative and liars. 

Beatriz Grimaldi Based in Bologna

 

The homewrecker who targets older men - She preys, she hunts, she target and grooms older men to leave their families. For months. Intentionally. Knowing exactly what she is doing. 

Female narcissists know exactly what they do. 

And then rushes off to Paris to meet them and begs for trips to London and elsewhere. Harri Mutka obliges. After all, one must pay for whores. 

Harri Mutka and the Harm of NPD

 "She said I was too feminine and was a homosexual."

"She said she wished I would get a terminal sexual disease."

"She came into the bedroom with a long, sharp knife, ready to stab me. "

These are the tales of Harri Mutka when he speaks of his ex-wife (one of his many partners). 

Harri Mutka, a covert narcissist, plays the victim well. Yet when asked what he does to women, why women react like that to him, he goes silent. Stonewalling all questions into a dead silence. 

People who suffer from NPD struggle with self-esteem and interpersonal relationships. Harri Mutka is a champion in disguising that. He will love bomb the new supply/replacement, feeling temporarily satisfied with his new replacement, happily showing off the new replacement. 

However, NPD is deeply ingrained in him - and his behaviour does not change. With time, his narcissistic traits will show up: lying, gaslighting, dishing out the silent treatment, retreating and denying human affection and communication. Once a woman is of no use to him, he will discard her brutally, as she no longer is considered even as a human being. 

It his last ex partner that he most used, abused and trashed. A woman who shared 50% of  expenses with him, who was honest, hard working and made a home like he never had. Yet it was this person that he was the most brutal to, the most cowardly, not even able to give closure. Because there often is no closure with narcissists. 

Narcissists may keep up the love bombing phase for a while,  remain in a resting period for a while, but their true nature is there. They will constantly have women on the side, constantly lie and blame the other for imagined offences. The other is merely an object for their self validation and nothing more. Narcissists may like the idea of being in love but their "love" is only an infatuation and usually a short term infatuation as they get bored easily and are not able to build long, lasting relationships. 

It's all illusions and facades with a narcissist. Only their lies come in consistent waves; so many lies that Harri Mutka is unable to keep up with his own lies. As a partner, you are only "feed" for a narcissist's self validation and their mask of being a decent human being will slip with time. 

Until the final discard moment which becomes more vicious and nastier with age - or so Harri Mutka has shown. As sure as rain, the moment will come when, faster than a flip of a switch, the partner will be discarded as a non human being, and he will do everything possible to harm, hurt and violate the person who was his partner and had made a home for him and his children. 

Harri Mutka - Narcissistic Abuse

 

First girlfriend slept with his best friend. 

First long term relationship was only because she came from a happy family but he was unable to make her happy. 

Then he went into another relationship, had two more children but could never be faithful to her. 

"When I want a woman, I will stop at nothing to have her" so he always says. 

Taking into account the pain he inflicts on his partners does not matter for Harri Mutka. His lies remain as glaring as his actions. 

Then he married a woman who used him as an ATM machine. Ignored him mostly and would not even cook for his children. He supported her and her two daughters. It came to the point when this wife entered the bedroom with a long, sharp kitchen knife to end him. he then found an apartment for her and her two daughters. 

If you ask him why this happened - after all, the wife had a good life - Harri Mutka goes silent. 

Because he cannot live on his own without a woman, there was another woman. A woman who gave up everything for him. A woman who was understanding, contributed 50% to everything, made a home, excused him for all his short comings. A woman who was dedicated to him, who supported him and loved him. 

That too was not enough for Harri Mutka. He had to lie, gaslight, give her the silent treatment as punishment for existing.When she was ill, at her most vulnerable, he made her even more ill. He lied to her until he had secured a new replacement and even then it was with a text message in the middle of the night. Too cowardly to even be honest about that. 

Yet, if you ask Harri Mutka about these women (never mind all the other in between women), he will always call them crazy and unbalanced. 

As an architect, as someone who is intelligent, this begs the question - how can all these women be crazy and unbalanced? Why does he go silent and refuses to have any responsibility to what he does to women? 

"I am a lone wolf" so he claims. 

No. Harri Mutka is no lone wolf. He is addicted to having new women on a constant basis. 

Today he is with a female narcissist who preys for older, married men on FB and IG, who grooms them until they leave their families. Today, he pays for this gold digger and homewrecker . 

Beatriz Grimaldi the Gold Digger in Bologna

 If homewrecking were such a fantastic thing, why do homewreckers keep so silent, only claiming to be "victims" ? 

Victims? Of what exactly? 

They destroy families, they destroy lives. 

They take away another woman's home and life. 

Beatriz Grimaldi spent months grooming Harri Mutka to leave his family. 

Beatriz Grimaldi spent months telling Harri Mutka what to do in the guise of "advice". 

Did she pay towards any home expenses? Negative.

 Did she pay towards his children? Negative. 

Did she take away the family home by convincing Harri Mutka to kick out his partner (who owns 50%)? Positive. 

Beatriz Grimaldi made it all public as well - her images, her poems (very poor quality but she calls them poems), her public posts about their long, nightly conversations. Those conversations were clockwork every day. Same time. Every. Night. 

But.. "she giggled so cutely!" according to Harri Mutka who had left for Paris on lies and deceit. 

Harri Mutka had still made future plans for his return; he still encouraged items for the family home while already with other women in Paris and paying Beatriz Grimaldi trips and holidays. 

Cute? 

Since when are gold digging homewreckers  "cute"? 

Victims? Of what?

Of the truth of their deceit and harm to others which is known, after they themselves flaunted it all in public. 

Beatriz Grimaldi and Mirrors of Deceit

 

Mirror, Mirror on the wall,

Who's the meanest of them all?

Perhaps another question would be, who is the most dangerous liar of them all.  For when a woman grooms a married man to leave his family, and then screams out "victimhood" after flaunting publicly what she did, there doesn't seem to be much truth in being a "victim". 

Unless it is a warped mirror of warped truths, which in the world of some people would make sense - as long as they are supported by their sycophants and the benefits those bring. 

Female narcissists such as Beatriz Grimaldi may consider themselves above everyone and all ethics. Advising men to leave their families, rushing to meet a married man and then convincing him to take his partner's home away, may all be fine for such females. 

But is it ethical? In particular for a person who claims to be interested in homeless women, Beatriz Grimaldi took pleasure in making another woman - who she never met - homeless. 

Mirror mirror on the wall, who's the greatest liar of them all? 

With a warped sense of self-importance, overbearing in her claims of fame and insatiable self validation, manipulative and with a complete lack of empathy for those she harms, female narcissists such as Beatriz Grimaldi are no "victims". They simply do not want to be accountable for the harm they do. And Beatriz Grimaldi knew exactly what she was doing (even though she "giggled sweetly" and it was so "cute" according to Harri Mutka) . 

Warped mirrors do not reflect truths. 

Warped mirrors reflect warped minds. 

Harri Mutka the #Narcissist in Tampere

 

After years of being supported and cared for...

After years of sharing expenses, dreams, travels, a life....

After years of having had a home like no other....

The narcissist will no longer be able to control his addictions to having new women. The resting phase is over. 

Harri Mutka has used and abuse women for years (he is almost 60 now). However, it was to his last partner that he unleashed all his narcissistic evil and hatred towards women - to the point of bullying and threatening out of her own home. 

He may be addicted to women and lying, but there is also a hidden hatred towards anyone who is creative, anyone who has light and life inside them. He will pretend, use and abuse until he secures a new supply - currently with a woman who lies and who picked him up on FB and IG , and boasts about what she did. 

Narcissistic abuse can never be normalised. 

Harri Mutka and His Ways of Deception

 

They stood by the river. 

"This is where my wife threw her wedding ring into the river" he said. 

What drives a woman to do such a thing? On a trip that a husband pays for? (as he paid for all his wife's trips). 

If you ask Harri Mutka, he will go silent. All explanations remain unspoken. He is always the victim, he is always misunderstood. 

Yet he never had as good as when with his last partner. He often said that he finally had a home which he never had before - clean, warm, organised closet, great food, generosity to all who came (despite being very few who he allowed to come).  He ensured that his partner lived under a bell jar as much as possible - even though he would often say how she was the light and life of the home and family. 

Isolating women suits Harri Mutka. The slightest interaction with another male will make him hold a grudge, go swiftly into jealousy mode. Projecting his own behaviour to others - because Harri Mutka does not know how to live without having women on the side. 

Always being the victim of women, he now pays for yet another gold digger - a Beatriz Grimaldi who claims to be an artist. Life is good when someone else is paying for trips to Venice, Palermo and so many other places. Life is sweet when you do not pay the bills, do not care or look after someone else's children. 

Harri Mutka had it all - a partner who looked up to him, trust him and would have done anything for him. A beautiful, unique home. A lifestyle which many would envy as his partner paid 50% of everything, always supporting him and encouraging him. 

Not enough though for him. His habits of deceit could not be ignored. 

From claiming that he could not "breathe" in Finland, to pretending to be a seasoned expat, Harri Mutka knows no limit in harming women, especially women who are good to him. From lack of empathy towards others, feeding off others' positive energy, gaslighting and delivering the silent treatment on a constant basis, Harri Mutka has indeed accomplished all the traits of a covert narcissist. 

Taking away the family home from his partner (who owns 50%) was his most vicious act - in the midst of a viral pandemic, he made her homeless. All to satisfy his new gold digger in Bologna. 

Harri Mutka - And #Narcissism

 

"When I want a woman, I will stop at nothing to have her".... so says Harri Mutka. 

Yet, if you ask him what he has done to women, you probably will hear:

"She said I was a bad lover" (followed by tears)

"She said I was not a real man, but a homosexual" (more tears follow).

That was the woman who he had married and had said to him. 

His previous partner, the mother of his two children in Tampere can barely say his name without spitting out venom and hatred. If you ask him why, if you ask him how such a lovely person can become so full of disgust when saying his name, he will shrug and call her mad, unbalanced. 

Mad. Unbalanced. All his women seem to have this characteristic after a while. 

Does Harri Mutka have any responsibility of making women mad? Of making women unbalanced?

Could it be his tendency to lie, to gaslight, to withdraw attention and affection, to deliver the silent treatment as punishment? Could it be his mania of spending time with other women on his mobile? Waking up, going to the washroom with his mobile? Hiding every text message and making up excuses and lies for why he is texting every night always at the same time?

Could it be his tendency to have jealousy attacks when there is absolutely no reason for any jealousy? 

This is what a narcissist looks like. This is how a narcissist behaves. He will isolate, lie, and project his behaviour to others, in particular, to the woman closest to him. 

He will go off to Paris to meet his new replacement, still making promises of future plans. 

He will rewrite narratives to suit himself, always portraying himself as a victim. He will manipulate emotions to suit himself, turning his insecurities into another person's flaws. 

Pretending to be something he certainly is not (e.g. an international expat), he will love bomb and then suddenly withdraw, push you away, ensure that you are isolated and left wondering what you have done. Actions and words do not match. 

Never an apology. That would be below him. 

"I am a lone wolf; I don't want to be with another woman". So he said on the eve of going to Paris to meet his new replacement, a gold digging Brazilian called Beatriz Grimaldi in Bologna. 

As if all this was not sufficient, not enough to hurt, he still had the audacity of telling his estranged partner how women in Paris were not as good as women in Finland, how Parisian women were not interested in sleeping with him. Boo hoo.... poor you....

This is not a 14 year old. This is a 60 year old architect who takes pride in hiding his darkness and cruelty to women. This is a man who used, abused and then brutally trashed the woman who had made a home for them - and even bullied and threatened her out of her own home. 

This is Harri Mutka in Tampere in a nutshell - a person who holds grudges out of nothing, who makes his partner feel vulnerable and unworthy, and who will be the most vindictive in order to please his new replacement - currently a Beatriz Grimaldi in Bologna who picked him up on FB and IG. 

Harri Mutka - The Narcissist in Tampere

 

Narcissists have their own particular way of thinking. 

This is an example of a narcissist in Tampere. 

Whenever you ask about the women in his life - of which he has three children from two different women - he will always blame the women for not being good enough for him .

Let's consider:

He wanted the mother of his first child because she came from a happy family. Yet he was not able to give her a lasting happiness. And will still make himself to be the "victim" of a failed relationship. 

He then moved on to another woman with who he had two children - even claiming that he did not want more than one child. He made her life miserable with regular affairs with other women, not giving her the necessary support and in fact, abandoning her needs when she most needed support. It is not wonder that she left him and has a happy life now. 

Until today, she spits out his name, with venom.  

Being addicted to women, Harri Mutka quickly moved on. This time to another woman who demanded that he marry her. And so he did. The woman had two daughters and he supported them all. As soon as they all moved in together, the wife stopped cooking for him and his children - she practically stopped doing anything at all for his children. Harri Mutka was used as an ATM machine on two legs. 

Yet.. why would a woman who was being so well financially supported, go to the bedroom at night with a sharp kitchen knife, ready to stab him? If you ask Harri Mutka, be prepared for his regular explanation - she was mad. 

Another mad woman? Another woman who did not understand him?

Is it possible that a grown up, intelligent man actually collects mad women?

The marriage counsellor they went to was quick to see what kind of man Harri Mutka was - an addict to women. Not only a porn addict, but addicted to having new women all the time. 

This is visible in many ways - pretending to be shy, polite and hesitating, Harri Mutka love bombs his new replacements readily. 

However, it was his last partner that he abused the most - a woman who paid 50% of everything, including for his children. A woman who made the home he never had had, who tool on board his children, his dark badly explained past, a woman who understood that life was not always a straight path. 

It was precisely this woman who Harri Mutka most used, abused and trashed.  Having lied for months and months making her more ill by the day, he finally ended the relationship of years with a text message in the middle of the night - "Yes, I have another woman and am seeing other women" . 

That is how Harri Mutka, almost 60 years old, now ends relationships. Not with a passing girlfriend. but with someone who made a life long commitment. Someone who cared for years for his family, had made a home and owned a home with him. 

Not content with that, he also bullied and threatened her out of her own home. 

Of course, if you ask Harri Mutka, he is a victim. He is misunderstood - and will not say a word about how he has affairs, how his behaviour towards women is erratic, mean and nasty. He will not say a word about how he is very comfortable using and abusing women - only to trash them in the discard phase after he has secured a replacement. 

Beatriz Grimaldi - The Other Woman

 Beatriz Grimaldi, the self-proclaimed "artist" in Bolgona, who trawals FB and Instagram, preying on married men. Not any man - but a man who she thinks will bring her some kind of "artistic" prestige. and financial gain.  

And so she groomed Harri Mutka from Tampere. Grooming took time and plenty of advice for him to leave his family. Many late night talks, though all denied (despite having boasted about these conversations on Instagram). 

Beatriz Grimaldi did everything intentionally and purposefully. From posing as a "friend" who gave advice to the woman who then ran to Paris to meet Harri Mutka. many trips and holidays have followed. London, Venice among others. 

To women like Beatriz Grimaldi, who claim to care about homeless women, stop your lying. 

You will always be the other woman who needs to be paid for. You will always be the woman who destroyed a family for the sake of your ego and wishing to have paid holidays and trips. 

You will always be the woman who has no care for other women, no respect for other women who you have never met. You will always be the woman who made another women homeless. 

And you will never be the only woman. 

You will be the woman who destroys families and lives of others. 

You will always be a female predator. 

Beatriz Grimaldi - Ossos de Princesa and Harm to Others

 

Did you really run out of men in Sao Paulo?

Were there not enough men for you in Bologna?

Did you really need to destroy lives in Tampere? For the sake of your ego? for the sake of trips and holidays paid for by Harri Mutka?

Or for the sake of adding to you list of achievements? Ruining lives, living off lies, deceit and harm to others? 

By ruining a family, you stole past, present and future. 

By ruining a family, by grooming a man to throw out the co-owner of their home, you leave everything in a dustbowl of raw bones. You are no princess. You are not above anyone else. 

Yet you have no qualms in behaving as such. As if the world owes you. But it is the men who pay for you - not your honest work. Adultery on social media is cheap. Adultery on social is easy. 

What is not that easy is making a home for others. For caring, for thinking of others. For putting others before yourself. For paying for others. For their comfort and well being. 

For the sake of love?

Love is easy when someone else is paying for you. When there are no dull routines. When you are not taking care of others, but are being paid for. 

Vain, haughty, wilful in using older men to satisfy your need of relevance, that too is not love.

Neither is your photography which is so unoriginal and copies others. 

Female predators are no princesses. 

Female predators like Beatriz Grimaldi leave behind a trail of dusty bones. 

Dusty bones left to rot from the harm she causes. 

Harri Mutka and his Web of Shadows and Lies - Tampere

 Harri Mutka , architect in Tampere, who takes pride in his shadowed life. Pretending to be an honest person, honest as most Finns are, make no mistake - this person is deceitful as he is a bully and coward. 

Consider his history with women: the mother of his children in Tampere practically spits out poison when saying his name. She knows well how Harri Mutka mistreats women. 

His ex wife, on a trip to Prague with him, threw her wedding ring in the river. Back in Tampere, she wanted to kill him with a long kitchen knife when he was in bed. 

If you ask him why, you will get the usual reply of how women are mad, crazy, suffering from insanity. 

Isn't that what all bullies and cowards say? Isn't that the usual, stereotypical way that men speak of women they have harmed?

Harri Mutka often succeeds in his guise of making others believe how "innocent" he is. 

It is "innocent" to make a partner ill? is it "innocent" to lie, deceive, gaslight, mentally and emotionally abuse another person? Is it "innocent" to use a  woman to pay 50% for his children, to use a woman who made a home for him and his children, only to bully and threaten her out of her home (of which she owns50%)?

Is it right to throw out a co-home owner with threats and bullying when Harri Mutka has 2 flats of his own in Tampere? 

All because Harri Mutka now obeys a Brazilian "artist" in Bologna who he pays for. 

Harri Mutka has a history of abusing women and even of his professional position, promising to find jobs for Brazilian females who do not have the slightest qualifications to work at Ramboll. One such case was a female Brazilian who went to Helsinki to meet with him but as she was lesbian, Harri Mutka dropped his effort in getting her a job at Ramboll Finland. 

A sex addict, addicted to using and abusing women, to living in a swamp of lies and deceit, it is time that men who abuse, such as Harri Mutka, are known. Women need to know how pretence and deceit, harming and hurting are what Harri Mutka is all about. As long as a woman is paying 50%, as long as that payment is convenient to him, all is ok. Once a younger woman picks him up, once his lies and deceit can no longer be hidden, it will be then he will deliver the final blow. 

A text at 11:45pm ending an adult, life-long relationship. Saying that yes, he has another woman and is seeing other women. This is from a 59 year old man, not a teenager. 

As if that is not enough, he will then complain about how women in Paris did not sleep with him, how Finnish women are not good enough for him. So are Brazilian gold diggers who control all his actions, good enough?

When his daughter was ill and needed support, did he bother speaking with her? No. His time on his phone was spent with other women. Addicted to having online affairs, these women were more important to him than giving his daughter any kind of support. 

Is this man an example of sound Finnish ethical behaviour?

It is not only the deceit he engages in, but in harmful, hurtful behaviour towards women.  Through bullying, threats and rewriting narratives, Harri Mutka is a danger to women.