Twisted Truths, Malevolent Morals

 There are fewer twisted truths than those of a home-wrecker. Just ask Beatriz Grimaldi

who uses Bologna as a base to hunt, prey, target and groom older men to leave their families. 

Elevating herself to be some kind of worshipped "artist", this is a woman who is unknown except as a ruthless  home-wrecker and liar. 

Beatriz Grimaldi considers herself above everyone and everything - why? Simply because she can fool everyone with twisted truths, also known as lies. 

Having written a couple of short stories about women who lose everything in life, it was her intention to put that into practice, i.e. making a woman lose everything in life. That cold malevolence is what you find behind the act of being an "artist". Usurping another woman's home and life, flaunting her actions and then crying out WOLF! WOLF! in sheep's clothing. 

A female narcissist like no other, this woman sets out to destroy lives, then plays victim of her own actions. There is no limit to her lies. As long as she can manipulate the public, while hiding the truth of what she does, that is enough for her. No ethics, no morals necessary. 

Female narcissists tend to want what others have and spare no thought for the damages they may cause. In the case of Beatriz Grimaldi, grooming a married man to leave his family, dishing out "advice" about his private life (where she never was) is all good practice. However, she was caught lying - lying about wanting "discretion" when flaunting her success of driving the man away from his family. Twisted truths. The truth of images and the lies of a narcissist. 

Yet this woman still considers herself above everyone and all ethics. Strident and overemphasising her "importance", she stops at nothing until cold blood is imprinted on her hands. Because she knows the truth beneath the lies. She knows what she did that summer. She knows. 

There may be few perfect marriages, few marriages that never have rough patches. 

That does not justify the actions of a home-wrecker who operates internationally. Intentionally and knowing exactly what she is doing. 

Twisted truths. Home-wreckers such as Beatriz Grimaldi will scream and squirm, twisting truths to their advantage, pretending to be victims when in fact they are responsible for destroying lives. 

Female narcissists are never accountable. 

Female narcissists thrive by twisted truths and the lies they spin. 

In Cold Blood

 

The woman known as Beatriz Grimaldi - a woman from Brazil who uses Bologna as a base to hunt, prey, target and groom older men to leave their families. 

This Beatriz Grimaldi targets her prey well; they are all older men, professionals, unlike herself. 

This woman claims to be an "artist" yet no one has heard of her. This woman claims to be a "social event planner" yet has no qualifications for such a position - other than manipulating and selling herself to those who can give her such a job. 

This woman quickly flew to Paris to meet the man she had been grooming for months. Unemployed but still went running to Paris and then begged to be taken to London. 

As Covid spread around the world, Beatriz Grimaldi was not affected; Harri Mutka gladly paid her trips to Venice, around Italy, around Europe and  to Sri Lanka and Mauritius. All wonderfully flaunted by Beatriz Grimaldi but paid for by Harri Mutka. Lot of "love" must be sprinkled on Social Media for all the paid trips. 

This is a woman who acts in cold blood. Beatriz Grimaldi grooms older men for months on social media. Once the men leave their families, she rushes to meet them, persuades them to kick their wives out of the family home (regardless whether the wife owns 50% or not), influences men to threaten and further abuse their families. 

In Cold Blood. 

This is a woman with a history of abusing women, despite her claiming to "care" about homeless women. This is a woman who does not need to work her way up in the world - so much more comfortable to lie on your back, pretend being some kind of "artist" and have men from other women pay for you. 

In Cold Ruthless Blood. 

She flaunts what she does and then, when it is public, will cry out for police and lawyers while hiding public evidence. 

Female narcissists are manipulative and liars. 

Harri Mutka and the Harm of NPD

 "She said I was too feminine and was a homosexual."

"She said she wished I would get a terminal sexual disease."

"She came into the bedroom with a long, sharp knife, ready to stab me. "

These are the tales of Harri Mutka when he speaks of his ex-wife (one of his many partners). 

Harri Mutka, a covert narcissist, plays the victim well. Yet when asked what he does to women, why women react like that to him, he goes silent. Stonewalling all questions into a dead silence. 

People who suffer from NPD struggle with self-esteem and interpersonal relationships. Harri Mutka is a champion in disguising that. He will love bomb the new supply/replacement, feeling temporarily satisfied with his new replacement, happily showing off the new replacement. 

However, NPD is deeply ingrained in him - and his behaviour does not change. With time, his narcissistic traits will show up: lying, gaslighting, dishing out the silent treatment, retreating and denying human affection and communication. Once a woman is of no use to him, he will discard her brutally, as she no longer is considered even as a human being. 

It his last ex partner that he most used, abused and trashed. A woman who shared 50% of  expenses with him, who was honest, hard working and made a home like he never had. Yet it was this person that he was the most brutal to, the most cowardly, not even able to give closure. Because there often is no closure with narcissists. 

Narcissists may keep up the love bombing phase for a while,  remain in a resting period for a while, but their true nature is there. They will constantly have women on the side, constantly lie and blame the other for imagined offences. The other is merely an object for their self validation and nothing more. Narcissists may like the idea of being in love but their "love" is only an infatuation and usually a short term infatuation as they get bored easily and are not able to build long, lasting relationships. 

It's all illusions and facades with a narcissist. Only their lies come in consistent waves; so many lies that Harri Mutka is unable to keep up with his own lies. As a partner, you are only "feed" for a narcissist's self validation and their mask of being a decent human being will slip with time. 

Until the final discard moment which becomes more vicious and nastier with age - or so Harri Mutka has shown. As sure as rain, the moment will come when, faster than a flip of a switch, the partner will be discarded as a non human being, and he will do everything possible to harm, hurt and violate the person who was his partner and had made a home for him and his children.