Harri Mutka and His Ways of Deception

 

They stood by the river. 

"This is where my wife threw her wedding ring into the river" he said. 

What drives a woman to do such a thing? On a trip that a husband pays for? (as he paid for all his wife's trips). 

If you ask Harri Mutka, he will go silent. All explanations remain unspoken. He is always the victim, he is always misunderstood. 

Yet he never had as good as when with his last partner. He often said that he finally had a home which he never had before - clean, warm, organised closet, great food, generosity to all who came (despite being very few who he allowed to come).  He ensured that his partner lived under a bell jar as much as possible - even though he would often say how she was the light and life of the home and family. 

Isolating women suits Harri Mutka. The slightest interaction with another male will make him hold a grudge, go swiftly into jealousy mode. Projecting his own behaviour to others - because Harri Mutka does not know how to live without having women on the side. 

Always being the victim of women, he now pays for yet another gold digger - a Beatriz Grimaldi who claims to be an artist. Life is good when someone else is paying for trips to Venice, Palermo and so many other places. Life is sweet when you do not pay the bills, do not care or look after someone else's children. 

Harri Mutka had it all - a partner who looked up to him, trust him and would have done anything for him. A beautiful, unique home. A lifestyle which many would envy as his partner paid 50% of everything, always supporting him and encouraging him. 

Not enough though for him. His habits of deceit could not be ignored. 

From claiming that he could not "breathe" in Finland, to pretending to be a seasoned expat, Harri Mutka knows no limit in harming women, especially women who are good to him. From lack of empathy towards others, feeding off others' positive energy, gaslighting and delivering the silent treatment on a constant basis, Harri Mutka has indeed accomplished all the traits of a covert narcissist. 

Taking away the family home from his partner (who owns 50%) was his most vicious act - in the midst of a viral pandemic, he made her homeless. All to satisfy his new gold digger in Bologna.