Beatriz Grimaldi and Mirrors of Deceit

 

Mirror, Mirror on the wall,

Who's the meanest of them all?

Perhaps another question would be, who is the most dangerous liar of them all.  For when a woman grooms a married man to leave his family, and then screams out "victimhood" after flaunting publicly what she did, there doesn't seem to be much truth in being a "victim". 

Unless it is a warped mirror of warped truths, which in the world of some people would make sense - as long as they are supported by their sycophants and the benefits those bring. 

Female narcissists such as Beatriz Grimaldi may consider themselves above everyone and all ethics. Advising men to leave their families, rushing to meet a married man and then convincing him to take his partner's home away, may all be fine for such females. 

But is it ethical? In particular for a person who claims to be interested in homeless women, Beatriz Grimaldi took pleasure in making another woman - who she never met - homeless. 

Mirror mirror on the wall, who's the greatest liar of them all? 

With a warped sense of self-importance, overbearing in her claims of fame and insatiable self validation, manipulative and with a complete lack of empathy for those she harms, female narcissists such as Beatriz Grimaldi are no "victims". They simply do not want to be accountable for the harm they do. And Beatriz Grimaldi knew exactly what she was doing (even though she "giggled sweetly" and it was so "cute" according to Harri Mutka) . 

Warped mirrors do not reflect truths. 

Warped mirrors reflect warped minds. 

Harri Mutka the #Narcissist in Tampere

 

After years of being supported and cared for...

After years of sharing expenses, dreams, travels, a life....

After years of having had a home like no other....

The narcissist will no longer be able to control his addictions to having new women. The resting phase is over. 

Harri Mutka has used and abuse women for years (he is almost 60 now). However, it was to his last partner that he unleashed all his narcissistic evil and hatred towards women - to the point of bullying and threatening out of her own home. 

He may be addicted to women and lying, but there is also a hidden hatred towards anyone who is creative, anyone who has light and life inside them. He will pretend, use and abuse until he secures a new supply - currently with a woman who lies and who picked him up on FB and IG , and boasts about what she did. 

Narcissistic abuse can never be normalised. 

Beatriz Grimaldi Disfigures Women

 

Beatriz Grimaldi in Bologna has finally achieved what she most wanted - to disfigure women, to take away any trace of humanity from women. 

She has a fascination with broken women, women torn apart by life. Not content to write some unreadable short stories about such characters, Beatriz Grimaldi finally succeeded in destroying a marriage in Tampere. 

Preying for older married men is one of her talents - and nothing will stop this narcissist from achieving her aims: an older man who will pay for her and who will give her social status. 

Spending months grooming Harri Mutka to leave his family by giving him "advice", she then delivered the final blow by ordering that Harri Mutka throw his wife out of the family home (Harri Mutka is Beatriz Grimaldi's perfect puppet)

What kind of woman does this? What kind of woman not only destroys a marriage but then proceeds to take over the family home - even if not living in the country?

Beatriz Grimaldi. 

With the pretence of caring for homeless women, Beatriz Grimaldi once again achieved what narcissists do best - lie, deceive and pretend. It is no wonder that she surrounds herself with elderly male sycophants who will pay homage to her. 

What kind of woman will lie, boast about her trips with a married men and then hide her flaunting and cry out "victimhood" when it is all public? 

Female predators and homewreckers such as this Beatriz Grimaldi in Bologna  will stop at nothing to have their egos fed by men and their financial gains satisfied. 

And that will include destroying other women. 

Harri Mutka and His Ways of Deception

 

They stood by the river. 

"This is where my wife threw her wedding ring into the river" he said. 

What drives a woman to do such a thing? On a trip that a husband pays for? (as he paid for all his wife's trips). 

If you ask Harri Mutka, he will go silent. All explanations remain unspoken. He is always the victim, he is always misunderstood. 

Yet he never had as good as when with his last partner. He often said that he finally had a home which he never had before - clean, warm, organised closet, great food, generosity to all who came (despite being very few who he allowed to come).  He ensured that his partner lived under a bell jar as much as possible - even though he would often say how she was the light and life of the home and family. 

Isolating women suits Harri Mutka. The slightest interaction with another male will make him hold a grudge, go swiftly into jealousy mode. Projecting his own behaviour to others - because Harri Mutka does not know how to live without having women on the side. 

Always being the victim of women, he now pays for yet another gold digger - a Beatriz Grimaldi who claims to be an artist. Life is good when someone else is paying for trips to Venice, Palermo and so many other places. Life is sweet when you do not pay the bills, do not care or look after someone else's children. 

Harri Mutka had it all - a partner who looked up to him, trust him and would have done anything for him. A beautiful, unique home. A lifestyle which many would envy as his partner paid 50% of everything, always supporting him and encouraging him. 

Not enough though for him. His habits of deceit could not be ignored. 

From claiming that he could not "breathe" in Finland, to pretending to be a seasoned expat, Harri Mutka knows no limit in harming women, especially women who are good to him. From lack of empathy towards others, feeding off others' positive energy, gaslighting and delivering the silent treatment on a constant basis, Harri Mutka has indeed accomplished all the traits of a covert narcissist. 

Taking away the family home from his partner (who owns 50%) was his most vicious act - in the midst of a viral pandemic, he made her homeless. All to satisfy his new gold digger in Bologna. 

Harri Mutka - And #Narcissism

 

"When I want a woman, I will stop at nothing to have her".... so says Harri Mutka. 

Yet, if you ask him what he has done to women, you probably will hear:

"She said I was a bad lover" (followed by tears)

"She said I was not a real man, but a homosexual" (more tears follow).

That was the woman who he had married and had said to him. 

His previous partner, the mother of his two children in Tampere can barely say his name without spitting out venom and hatred. If you ask him why, if you ask him how such a lovely person can become so full of disgust when saying his name, he will shrug and call her mad, unbalanced. 

Mad. Unbalanced. All his women seem to have this characteristic after a while. 

Does Harri Mutka have any responsibility of making women mad? Of making women unbalanced?

Could it be his tendency to lie, to gaslight, to withdraw attention and affection, to deliver the silent treatment as punishment? Could it be his mania of spending time with other women on his mobile? Waking up, going to the washroom with his mobile? Hiding every text message and making up excuses and lies for why he is texting every night always at the same time?

Could it be his tendency to have jealousy attacks when there is absolutely no reason for any jealousy? 

This is what a narcissist looks like. This is how a narcissist behaves. He will isolate, lie, and project his behaviour to others, in particular, to the woman closest to him. 

He will go off to Paris to meet his new replacement, still making promises of future plans. 

He will rewrite narratives to suit himself, always portraying himself as a victim. He will manipulate emotions to suit himself, turning his insecurities into another person's flaws. 

Pretending to be something he certainly is not (e.g. an international expat), he will love bomb and then suddenly withdraw, push you away, ensure that you are isolated and left wondering what you have done. Actions and words do not match. 

Never an apology. That would be below him. 

"I am a lone wolf; I don't want to be with another woman". So he said on the eve of going to Paris to meet his new replacement, a gold digging Brazilian called Beatriz Grimaldi in Bologna. 

As if all this was not sufficient, not enough to hurt, he still had the audacity of telling his estranged partner how women in Paris were not as good as women in Finland, how Parisian women were not interested in sleeping with him. Boo hoo.... poor you....

This is not a 14 year old. This is a 60 year old architect who takes pride in hiding his darkness and cruelty to women. This is a man who used, abused and then brutally trashed the woman who had made a home for them - and even bullied and threatened her out of her own home. 

This is Harri Mutka in Tampere in a nutshell - a person who holds grudges out of nothing, who makes his partner feel vulnerable and unworthy, and who will be the most vindictive in order to please his new replacement - currently a Beatriz Grimaldi in Bologna who picked him up on FB and IG. 

Harri Mutka - The Narcissist in Tampere

 

Narcissists have their own particular way of thinking. 

This is an example of a narcissist in Tampere. 

Whenever you ask about the women in his life - of which he has three children from two different women - he will always blame the women for not being good enough for him .

Let's consider:

He wanted the mother of his first child because she came from a happy family. Yet he was not able to give her a lasting happiness. And will still make himself to be the "victim" of a failed relationship. 

He then moved on to another woman with who he had two children - even claiming that he did not want more than one child. He made her life miserable with regular affairs with other women, not giving her the necessary support and in fact, abandoning her needs when she most needed support. It is not wonder that she left him and has a happy life now. 

Until today, she spits out his name, with venom.  

Being addicted to women, Harri Mutka quickly moved on. This time to another woman who demanded that he marry her. And so he did. The woman had two daughters and he supported them all. As soon as they all moved in together, the wife stopped cooking for him and his children - she practically stopped doing anything at all for his children. Harri Mutka was used as an ATM machine on two legs. 

Yet.. why would a woman who was being so well financially supported, go to the bedroom at night with a sharp kitchen knife, ready to stab him? If you ask Harri Mutka, be prepared for his regular explanation - she was mad. 

Another mad woman? Another woman who did not understand him?

Is it possible that a grown up, intelligent man actually collects mad women?

The marriage counsellor they went to was quick to see what kind of man Harri Mutka was - an addict to women. Not only a porn addict, but addicted to having new women all the time. 

This is visible in many ways - pretending to be shy, polite and hesitating, Harri Mutka love bombs his new replacements readily. 

However, it was his last partner that he abused the most - a woman who paid 50% of everything, including for his children. A woman who made the home he never had had, who tool on board his children, his dark badly explained past, a woman who understood that life was not always a straight path. 

It was precisely this woman who Harri Mutka most used, abused and trashed.  Having lied for months and months making her more ill by the day, he finally ended the relationship of years with a text message in the middle of the night - "Yes, I have another woman and am seeing other women" . 

That is how Harri Mutka, almost 60 years old, now ends relationships. Not with a passing girlfriend. but with someone who made a life long commitment. Someone who cared for years for his family, had made a home and owned a home with him. 

Not content with that, he also bullied and threatened her out of her own home. 

Of course, if you ask Harri Mutka, he is a victim. He is misunderstood - and will not say a word about how he has affairs, how his behaviour towards women is erratic, mean and nasty. He will not say a word about how he is very comfortable using and abusing women - only to trash them in the discard phase after he has secured a replacement. 

Beatriz Grimaldi - What do You Call a Woman?

 

What do you call a woman who spends months grooming a married man to leave his family?

What do you call a woman who spends months, every night at the same time, contacting a married man?

What do you call a woman who grooms a man to leave his family, advising him about his family of which she knows nothing?

What do you call a woman, who, according to Harri Mutka,  only exchanged a "couple" of text messages, yet went running to Paris to be with him? 

What do you call a woman who flaunted being with a man who had a family on Instagram and Facebook, but when her behaviour was so obvious and public, she then cries out for "discretion" and plays the "victim"?

What do you call a woman who lies about being a famous artist, yet nobody other than her cronies (mostly old as she surrounds herself with older men to pay her homage), know who she is?

What do you call a woman who intentionally and knowingly destroys lives and families?