The homewrecker who targets older men - She preys, she hunts, she target and grooms older men to leave their families. For months. Intentionally. Knowing exactly what she is doing.
Female narcissists know exactly what they do.
And then rushes off to Paris to meet them and begs for trips to London and elsewhere. Harri Mutka obliges. After all, one must pay for whores.
"She said she wished I would get a terminal sexual disease."
"She came into the bedroom with a long, sharp knife, ready to stab me. "
These are the tales of Harri Mutka when he speaks of his ex-wife (one of his many partners).
Harri Mutka, a covert narcissist, plays the victim well. Yet when asked what he does to women, why women react like that to him, he goes silent. Stonewalling all questions into a dead silence.
People who suffer from NPD struggle with self-esteem and interpersonal relationships. Harri Mutka is a champion in disguising that. He will love bomb the new supply/replacement, feeling temporarily satisfied with his new replacement, happily showing off the new replacement.
However, NPD is deeply ingrained in him - and his behaviour does not change. With time, his narcissistic traits will show up: lying, gaslighting, dishing out the silent treatment, retreating and denying human affection and communication. Once a woman is of no use to him, he will discard her brutally, as she no longer is considered even as a human being.
It his last ex partner that he most used, abused and trashed. A woman who shared 50% of expenses with him, who was honest, hard working and made a home like he never had. Yet it was this person that he was the most brutal to, the most cowardly, not even able to give closure. Because there often is no closure with narcissists.
It's all illusions and facades with a narcissist. Only their lies come in consistent waves; so many lies that Harri Mutka is unable to keep up with his own lies. As a partner, you are only "feed" for a narcissist's self validation and their mask of being a decent human being will slip with time.
Until the final discard moment which becomes more vicious and nastier with age - or so Harri Mutka has shown. As sure as rain, the moment will come when, faster than a flip of a switch, the partner will be discarded as a non human being, and he will do everything possible to harm, hurt and violate the person who was his partner and had made a home for him and his children.
Check.
pretends to be a professional social event planner?
Check.
Pretends to be Mother of all Buddhas?
Check.
Pretends to be compassionate?
Check.
Reality:
Not a shadow of being human.
a person who forms relationships with others purely to extract money from them, in particular a woman who strives to marry a wealthy man.
Gold digger in Bologna who operates across borders as she preys for married men on FB and IG: Beatriz Grimaldi
Lots of love and hearts now as Harri Mutka will be receiving a lump sum soon. (a lump sum he will always regret to receive).
Nothing like stealing a home from a woman as Beatriz Grimaldi does.
Nothing like boasting about it publicly and then crying out what a poor "victim" she is.
Beatriz Grimaldi is no victim.
No country needs these gold diggers. Time for Beatriz Grimaldi to return to Brazil where she belongs.
(perhaps after sucking out enough money from men in EU?)
First long term relationship was only because she came from a happy family but he was unable to make her happy.
Then he went into another relationship, had two more children but could never be faithful to her.
"When I want a woman, I will stop at nothing to have her" so he always says.
Taking into account the pain he inflicts on his partners does not matter for Harri Mutka. His lies remain as glaring as his actions.
Then he married a woman who used him as an ATM machine. Ignored him mostly and would not even cook for his children. He supported her and her two daughters. It came to the point when this wife entered the bedroom with a long, sharp kitchen knife to end him. he then found an apartment for her and her two daughters.
If you ask him why this happened - after all, the wife had a good life - Harri Mutka goes silent.
Because he cannot live on his own without a woman, there was another woman. A woman who gave up everything for him. A woman who was understanding, contributed 50% to everything, made a home, excused him for all his short comings. A woman who was dedicated to him, who supported him and loved him.
That too was not enough for Harri Mutka. He had to lie, gaslight, give her the silent treatment as punishment for existing.When she was ill, at her most vulnerable, he made her even more ill. He lied to her until he had secured a new replacement and even then it was with a text message in the middle of the night. Too cowardly to even be honest about that.
Yet, if you ask Harri Mutka about these women (never mind all the other in between women), he will always call them crazy and unbalanced.
As an architect, as someone who is intelligent, this begs the question - how can all these women be crazy and unbalanced? Why does he go silent and refuses to have any responsibility to what he does to women?
"I am a lone wolf" so he claims.
No. Harri Mutka is no lone wolf. He is addicted to having new women on a constant basis.
Today he is with a female narcissist who preys for older, married men on FB and IG, who grooms them until they leave their families. Today, he pays for this gold digger and homewrecker .
Victims? Of what exactly?
They destroy families, they destroy lives.
They take away another woman's home and life.
Beatriz Grimaldi spent months grooming Harri Mutka to leave his family.
Beatriz Grimaldi spent months telling Harri Mutka what to do in the guise of "advice".
Did she pay towards any home expenses? Negative.
Did she pay towards his children? Negative.
Did she take away the family home by convincing Harri Mutka to kick out his partner (who owns 50%)? Positive.
Beatriz Grimaldi made it all public as well - her images, her poems (very poor quality but she calls them poems), her public posts about their long, nightly conversations. Those conversations were clockwork every day. Same time. Every. Night.
But.. "she giggled so cutely!" according to Harri Mutka who had left for Paris on lies and deceit.
Harri Mutka had still made future plans for his return; he still encouraged items for the family home while already with other women in Paris and paying Beatriz Grimaldi trips and holidays.
Cute?
Since when are gold digging homewreckers "cute"?
Victims? Of what?
Of the truth of their deceit and harm to others which is known, after they themselves flaunted it all in public.
Beatriz Grimaldi knows well what she did.
Beatriz Grimaldi knows well how she destroyed lives.
Beatriz Grimaldi knows well how she preys for older, married men and how she uses them for her own benefit.
It doesn't take much to lie. It doesn't take much to pretend to be a "victim" and not disclose one's actions, one...
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